_LOL_ (Liking us On the Low) ::vs:: ((LOL)) *Liking us Out Loud*

There is evidence that some of your are Liking Us on the Low and we won't allow anymore of that! From now on, you can only Like Us Out Loud! #hairflip (video explains it all)

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This Week's Addition to the ~*Ladies Room Lingo*~:

#Chosies

#Chosies: Individuals (both male and female) who display acts of desperation on social networking sites, and even in real life, hoping to get “chose”. In real life, their actions may be a little more subtle as compared to online.  Real life #Chosies may do things like stand next to VIP, hoping to get chose as the groupie of the night. Rewards might be free drinks, a picture with a celebrity, or an invitation to the “after-party”. Although, the online #Chosies competition is tough; so the acts of desperation are much more prevalent. Remember, these are thirsty males and females alike. These #Chosies do things like post booty pics, boob pics, and other thirsty pics online, solicit themselves for cuddle buddies, and post #LonelyTweets in hopes to find their online savior. But don’t save ’em! (They don’t want to be saved) They just want to be DM’d and get “chose”. 

>>>There's so much more we'll talk about and this is our first of many hour long shows!!! We're also taking callers now!! You can call (760) 283-5121 and press "1" to be on air! You can also chat live with us by clicking the BlogTalkRadio button below! Thanks for your support and your ears every Wednesday night at 11pm EST!!!<<<

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@NajFierceness   &   @KESHIAfromCALI

Show 5: I Am Not MY ______

We are sooooo happy to announce that due to listener demands, we will now make our show HOUR-LONG episodes! We are also welcoming you listeners to participate!!! Yall email and tweet us all the time with your thoughts and opinions, so now you will have the opportunity to speak your mind on air!!! We also want to thank you for your support and giving us your ears every week! Tell your friends and feel free to comment here! We promise to deliver every time!!! Below is a sneak peek of Wednesday's show! We'll talk to you then! :-)


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Ladies, have you ever been told that you should model or play basketball because you're tall? Have you been told that you should be a video chick because you have a donk? Have you been told that you should work at Hooters because you have large "hooters?" Well, this show is a declaration of independence! We are NOT OUR *Insert Heres* Whether it be, height, donk, or hooters! And every week we serve up a new addition to the ~*Ladies Room Lingo*~! The Ladies Room Attendant will also drop by with some advice! So cue: “Independent Women” ladies, and fellas grab a pen and take notes!






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Another #Bitterman

*sigh* Oh guys....These videos are just for laughs! You know in the {Ladies Room} we don't #ManBash ...we just point out what we see and discuss it! #hairflip ....We love you guys though....just cool it with the bitterness! :-)


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Show 4 Review: Are We {Ladies} Causing #ManBitterness ?

[Disclaimer: We in the {Ladies Room} always vow not to #ManBash. This particular show was a reflection of a recent wave of #ManBitterness being perpetuated on social networking sites everywhere. We decided to address the #BitterMan Syndrome and explore the causes. So do not flee for fear of the title! We still love the #BitterMan, we just wanted to bring it to light!]

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This Week's addition to the ~*Ladies Room Lingo*~ is defined on the left <----- #TheSneakAttack. Check out the {Ladies Room} official definition and be careful not to be hit! LOL

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>The #BitterMan<

The Syndrome: A man who repeatedly rants on social networking websites (SNS) about the awfulness of some particular woman, or past women, and her/their wrongdoings.


The Symptoms: The #BitterMan syndrome causes men to create bitter trending topics such as: #GirlUaintRight and #REALWomen; and hour-long rants that oftentimes result in #FollowerMuting. 


The Antidotes: 

1. Stay off Twitter when you're feeling bitter!

2. Go out with the fellas

3. Call your stand-by

4. Go to the gym

5. Brush your teeth, wash your car, and get a haircut

6. STAY AWAY FROM YOUR PHONE!!!

(no bitter texts, voicemails, tweets, emails, or Facebook updates)

**We then discussed the causes of the #BitterMan and if we {Ladies} could be the direct cause**


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The Ladies Room Attendant stopped by with her advice this week: 

Ladies... AND Gents, Don't "Tasha Mack" It!

When it comes to dealing with guys, ladies Don't "Tasha Mack" It; meaning don't think too much, dig too deep for meaning, overreact, or sabotage your relationships before they're even allowed to fully develop. Just enjoy the moments. If he's an “Undefined,” a “Sometimes/Never,” or whatever, and you're happy when you're together, just leave it be. Take it for what it is and enjoy yourself! ("Tom Mack" or "Tyrone Mack" is the male variation of this term.) ***The character "Tasha Mack" appears of the BET show, "The Game" Tuesday nights at 10pm EST.***

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@NajFierceness & @KESHIAfromCALI

#ManBitterness

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~* The #Bitterman Playlist *~

A playlist for the moments of #ManBitterness . Only to played before overcoming #ManBitterness.

Carl Thomas- "So Emotional"

Tank- "Please Don't Go"

Ne-Yo- "So Sick"

Omarion- "Ice Box"

Profyle- "Liar, Cheater, Deceiver, Heartbreaker"

Usher- "Let It Burn" 

Cee-Lo- "F*** You"

Beware of the men while they're listening to these songs, for these songs perpetuate #ManBitterness! 0_o

Show 4: Are We {Ladies} Causing #ManBitterness?

Cue: Carl Thomas “So Emotional” as men take to social networks with their anger and bitterness for, about, and toward women. But the question is, are we women the cause? We’ll explain the different #BitterMen scenarios, explore possible causes, and offer some #ManBitterness antidotes. The Ladies Room Attendant will give us some advice, and what’s #MLR without a new addition to the ~*Ladies Room Lingo*~ log? So men, put away your tissues and Lady Debos listen up! :-)


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This Week's ~*Ladies Room Lingo*~ addition:


     #TheSneakAttack

A relationship tactic used by guys to get you to be their girlfriend. #TheSneakAttack happens when you are "informed" that you are now in a relationship versus being "asked" if you'd like to be in one. A simple example of this is when you are out somewhere with this guy and he introduces you as "his girl" without ever discussing it with you prior -- thus hitting you with #TheSneakAttack.

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Talk to ya Wednesday night! 

@NajFierceness  &   @KESHIAfromCALI

Show 3: Men Sneaking into the [Ladies Room]

Since we got such a big response from our #ManListeners, we decided to sneak a couple of them into the [Ladies Room] to tell us what they think! We'll get the dirt from the fellas, advice from the Ladies Room Attendant,  and a new addition to the ~* Ladies Room Lingo*~ log. So we're sure you're going to want to sneak in for this!!! The #LadyListeners need to huddle up for this one and take notes!

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This Week's ~*Ladies Room Lingo*~ addition:

#BGF
       Black Girl Face

An extremely dynamic facial expression that requires the scrunching of the face so that the lips are pursed up and together (in most cases, to the side as well) with one eyebrow raised, and the evil eye. When the #BGF is used in combination with the arms crossed, the eyes to the side while looking up and down, and even a #hairflip, DO NOT speak the the Black Girl for at least 2 minutes --  there is a potential catastrophe brewing inside, just like the calm before the storm. The #BGF is also known to be used to emphasize a point, after a sarcastic remark, as a nonverbal hint to "figure it out" (whatever it is), or as a challenge to be challenged. It also complements phrases like: "Now you know you're lying", "I told you so", "Yes girl! I approve!" , "...and what", "I wish you would" and other face-making situations like these. 

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We decided to sneak men into the [Ladies Room]!!!

Derek ( @shittalky)  &  Jeremiah ( @beHALF) are the hosts of "TNOTR" (Two *Ninjas* on the Radio) on blogtalkradio, which airs Friday nights at 10 pm EST. We decided to sneak them in to hear what guys think of our weekly meetings!

Guys, what do you think of men and women being platonic friends?

@Shittalky: "I feel like there could be a platonic friendship on the female side but not the male. Men play the background role and wait until the boyfriend messes up. Platonic friendships don't exist in our minds!"  


@beHALF: " It depends on who values a friendship more. Sometimes you need the opposite sex for advice."


@NajFierceness: "A woman can strictly be friends with a guy. I don't think that men always depend on women for sex. I think that they can have be platonic friends."


@KESHIAfromCALI: " I think that two attractive people are going to have sex. They can probably be friends afterwards, Sexy people have sex."


We also discussed women having "Standby Men," asked what men think about women releasing their bodily functions around her partner, and if sexual consent could be considered if the woman is intoxicated. 

Listen to the show in its entirety to hear everything we had to say! 

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Thank you so much for your support and your ears every Wednesday! Please feel free to drop a comment! ...We don't mind a little criticism or praise! 

@NajFierceness   &   @KESHIAfromCALI

Catch up on Show 2: ~*Ladies Room Lingo*~

<---- On the left is our ~*Ladies Room Lingo*~ log!! Our second show was dedicated to two new additions to the [Ladies Room] dictionary: #RabbitSex & #HoodratSex

We are very passionate in our disdain for the above-mentioned actions. The definitions are to the left so read up and take notes!!! 

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Advice from the Ladies Room Attendant: 

#RobinHoodMentality: 

                         “Take from your baller man to give to your broke man” 

Acting on this mentality becomes second nature for many women when casually dating. The reason is because the guy you prefer to spend time with usually lacks the funds to do so; in turn, you have the overwhelming desire to “help him” overcome any obstacles preventing him from connecting with you. Examples: (1) If you want to talk to him and he doesn’t have a phone – you’ll “help him” get one. (2) If you want to see him and he doesn’t have the funds or a car – you’ll “help him” with his travel arrangements. Many of times the extra cash that allows women to help out the broke man is coming from the baller man. Just like Robin Hood would take from the rich and give to the poor, women tend to do same when casually dating, hence Robin Hood Mentality. Honestly, the underlying incentive for women to act on this Robin Hood Mentality is to get to the broke man because he has that -- Magicstick.

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@ Us & Ask Us
(Listeners @ us on Twitter or email us at MtgNtheLadiesRm@gmail.com to ask us a question.)

This Week's @: 

What do you ladies think about women asking men to go on dates? 

Keshia: "It's cool with me. It's time for ladies to step up and say what we want instead of waiting for the man to ask!"                                            

Najla: "There's definitely a difference between asking a guy to join you and asking a guy out. Whoever asks, PAYS! On a first date though, the man should always pay!



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Say What Now?
(We play a song or audio clip that we analyze)


This week, we analyzed: 

Najla: " Sex for somebody's birthday is NOT a gift! Especially not the only gift! This is the cheap man's anthem! How can you tell the woman she doesn't need candles or cake for HER birthday? So wrong on all levels! We want candles on a cake and a card! "


Keshia: " This is #unacceptable. These men need to understand that we don't like this! It has to stop! "


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@NajFierceness   &   @KESHIAfromCALI

Show 2: Ladies Room Lingo

What is #SyllableClap #AirGrab and #HairFlip? Well, they're all part of the ~*LadiesRoomLingo*~! This show we'll go in-depth about our favorite verbal hashtags: #RabbitSex and #HoodratSex .... Don't get us wrong, they're favorites because they're done most often...but we actually hate them and we'll tell you why! This is especially for our #ManListeners and something our #LadyListeners can relate to! ♥


Make sure you listen Wednesday, January 5, 2011!!! Listen online or call to listen at (760) 283-5121


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Don't miss your date with us!!! 

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ALL the GIRLS STANDING in the LINE for the [LADIES ROOM] *REVIEW*

Allow us to re-introduce ourselves our names are Najla T. & KESHIAfromCALI and every Wednesday here in the Ladies Room you can expect:
     * To hear conversations that can usually be overheard in an actual ladies room or anywhere there's a gathering of ladies.
     * To provide infotainment (entertaining information that's highly useful (just said playfully ;-) ) and advice for both women and men.
     * To inform men of women's most common pet peeves.

& if you missed ALL the GIRLS STANDING in the LINE for the [LADIES ROOM] you missed wayyyyy too much! Here's a little catch-up session:



Najla T. noticed while fishing through her timeline on Twitter (@NajFierceness) that men were tweeting about how much they missed their manfriends! A tweet mentioned "I miss @________ #noHomo" and she was very confused about why she was seeing this very close manfriend-dom happen very often on her timeline....and we decided to call it "Men Missing Men." Since it happens a lot on social networking websites, we will probably give more "Men Missing Men" updates in later shows...


Keshia (who is known as @KESHIAfromCALI on Twitter) had a man from about 5 years back call her to catch up. With good news, Keshia exclaimed that she will be moving to New York, expecting the guy to be excited. Instead, he let out a loaded, agitated *sigh* and explained how frustrated he is with her moving all over the country and not being able to settle down with her. So we've concluded that in addition to "Men Missing Men", also what's happening is "Men Reprimanding Women."


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Advice from the Ladies Room Attendant 
In most [Ladies Rooms] a woman has candy, gum, bobby pins, M&Ms, lotion, body spray, underwear (okay, she might not have underwear, LOL) and everything to ensure that your restaurant and/or club experience goes well. The Ladies Room Attendant also hears plenty of conversations and most likely has some advice! So in our minds, she's an older, wiser woman who can give us her jewels of wisdom to ensure that we enter the 25-and-up world well adjusted.


This week: CONTACT NAMES 
                  (only boyfriends are called by their names)
While we women always have nicknames for men, The Ladies Room Attendant stresses the importance of referring men who we are not particularly serious with as their location ("So Florida did this..." or "Miami doesn't know how to act...") , his occupation ("Med School" or "Valet Man"), what he does for you ("Errand Boy"), or your non-relationship status("My Undefined" or my Sometimes Never"). When you decide to get serious with said men, then he becomes your boyfriend and will earn his actual name!


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@ Us & Ask Us! 
People ask us our opinions all the time! So you can "@ us" on Twitter (@NajFierceness and @KESHIAfromCALI) a question and we can answer it on the show! OR if your question exceed 140 characters, you can email us at MtgNtheLadiesRm@gmail.com!

@NJOFitness: What creative date ideas do you ladies have?

Najla suggested a chocolate-making date at your local chocolate bar or store. Most chocolatiers have classes that you can bring a date on!
>>> If you're in DC, my favorite place AC/KC has Chocolate Truffle Making Classes, Chocolate and Wine Pairing Classes, and Chocolate Tasting Classes every week! Check it out! -----> http://ackccocoabar.com/store/page8.html


Keshia suggested an ice skating date! It's cold, but more reason to cuddle up and have fun while getting to know your date! And make sure your date is prepared, if not, it's right down the street from Fox Hills Mall! Grab a scarf, some gloves, and get ready to have a memorable date!
>>>> If you're in California, well in the LA area, go to the Culver City rink! ------> http://www.culvercityicerink.com/


(((( We strongly suggest that you listen to what your date likes! We women can be especially picky, but we will always let you know what we hate and what we love! So during your initial conversation, make sure you listen to her hobbies and you can come up with some great date ideas! ))))


We also introduced the #SyllableClap ! You can check out all of our Ladies Room Lingo on the lefthand side. Each week we'll post our addition to the ~*Ladies Room Lingo*~ here! We'll have video demonstrations coming soon!!!! #excitement!


and the show didn't stop there!!! Following the show, we poured over into TinyChat for The LetOut! ....now if you're from the East Coast, you know that when the clubs "let out," the parking lot party begins, usually for those who weren't able to get into the club! (LOL)


Anyway, we had an amazing first show and we thank you for your support! You can always listen to shows that you've missed by clicking below! 


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